I write this blog with a heavy heart as sometimes you have days when you meet a dog that just gets to you. Today was one of them. On my walk around the kennels I met a new inmate, he was sat shaking and yowling is the only word I can use to describe the noise. Those of you who have shared your life with a Staffy will know what I mean, is that noise they do when they are so sad and anxious that they can't do much else.
This is what Boss was doing this morning when I came to his kennel. Boss is an 11yr old black Staffordshire Bull Terrier who was 'given up' because after 11yrs his owners decided to have a baby which meant there wasn't room for Boss and a baby.I totally understand how hard it is with a baby and a dog, I only gave birth 5 months ago but it was our decision to own a dog and have a baby. I admit it takes a great deal of effort but in my opinion, if you can rehome a dog for doing nothing wrong after 11yrs you need your head read.
There are certain things surrounding dogs that get me on my high horse and this is one of them. If you are reading this and considering gettting a dog and you don't yet have a baby but are planning to have one then think about it carefully. A dog is not and should not be something that you have until a baby comes along. A child growing up with a dog is an amazing experience if done carefully and with respect.
Boss barked when you didn't throw the ball quick enough, he backed into you when he wanted a cuddle all things that he has been allowed to do for 11yrs of his life. So anything that you train or tolerate with your dog, think to the future....will it still be so 'sweet' when doggy wants to lie on your chest whilst your breastfeeding? Its not the dog's fault if you allow it to become a certain way that you then don't like when you are exhausted from being up all night with a 3 day old baby.
Please just use this tale to make yourself think or pass it on to friends and family considering getting a dog. Or if you own a dog and are pregnant, call me and lets get you prepped for this life changing experience because it is truly heartbreaking to watch a dog like Boss going through what he is.
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